The family is the best source of leverage for motivating an addict alcoholic to treatment. What is more unmanageable than breaking your loved one’s heart? January 21, 2020 by admin with no comment Uncategorized Previous Post Surrender and spirituality have to come first. Do the STEPS. All else will follow! Next Post The family is the motivator. The secret to successful addiction recovery is to motivate the addict/alcoholic to desire help.